The ultimate question is this, what next? For most of us, we
have a lot of questions to answer such as; do I stay back in this state or go
back to my base? How sure am I to find work back home? Now that I am not
entitled to accommodation, how do I pay for it? My parents have told me I’m an
adult and I should take care of myself, can I cope with these meager salaries?
Who do I live with and can I live alone? Is it safe? When do I get married and
is my soul mate here? Endless questions flood our minds as we near the date
when we are told to officially 'pass out' of the NYSC programme. The truth is
this, to get a good head start at our after-NYSC life, we must answer these
questions.
Staying back is a big decision and is dependent on so many
factors. One, the work environment. Is the pay adequate to take care of all the
bills, including welfare and occasional replenishing of wardrobes? Are the
people in the office friendly and willing to help you acclimatize to recent
changes both in your office duties and your status as a citizen? Is the area
safe? Can you afford accommodation for yourself now that you are no longer a
corper? These questions must be answered and you must answer them without
sentiment because when it comes to work and money, emotions are never involved.
A life partner has become one of life's hidden treasures and
for most of us, we are impatient to find it. Everyone just wants a map pointing
to a direction shouting, 'there it is!' Unfortunately, when it comes to issues
of the heart, patience is required. Some of us found our life partners during
the NYSC programme. Most of who did had our weddings during the NYSC programme
since the scheme provided financial assistance to ease the stress of the two
lovebirds involved. Now there will be no financial assistance; just you, your
pay from work and your guts to face the world. Would it be easy? Not in the
least. However, for those of us who are Christians, it is advisable that we
leave such matters to God and allow Him to direct our footsteps. The eye can be
deceived, but the spirit of God in you, cannot. Do not make finding a soul mate
a reason for staying back. Some of us have this notion, of men or women in a
particular area being more marriageable than others. Even if this is true, if
both of you are to be together, the Lord will bring it to pass in His time. Of
all issues to take into your hands, marriage is definitely not one of them.
The issue of safety, cost of living and availability of jobs
is also an important factor for those considering staying back in a state? If
unsafe, can you cope with the amount of hostility, where there is a high cost
of living will you be able to make up for it and in the first place, are there
jobs available back here? Remember, that while answering these questions, you
must be objective and where there is a question mark as regards safety, you
should project into the future to see if things would be for the better.
However, for the sake of simplicity, let us all look at these factors in terms
of the present. Do they favor you now?
For those of us who do not want work for anyone but already
have a business we’d like to tow into, bravo to you. However you also have some
questions answer. Have you conducted a feasibility study and if so, does it favor
your proposed business idea? In the event of failure of the business, where
does money to pay off debts come from? Will your target audience be satisfied
with this new product? What about sustainability and cost of embarking on a
business venture of that sort? All these will be answered in your business plan,
and you MUST possess one.
What about those who are leaving and going back to their base
states. It would be much easier to take in if there were jobs waiting for such
category of people. If you are one of them, then you had better start building
your network base and singing your name in the ears of those who do or do not
want to hear, as the fact is, you've been absent from the scene for nearly one
year. You are now your own advertiser.
Living apart from parent's donations to our welfare package
can be quite disturbing. Some of us have lived on our parents our whole lives,
the rest of us have parents that have been reducing their quotas as a way of
hinting us that we are near the adult stage of life and others, have gotten an
early start in living on the labor of their own hands. For the first set of
people, this would be the hardest, as they most times lack self-discipline and
budgeting skills. As you switch over from corper to adult, you must imbibe the
habits of regulating your spending and planning your costs. If not, you would
wind up stranded, starving and savaged. In other words, you'll be a total
wreck.
After-NYSC, what next? It’s a big question but it is
advisable that it should be answered at least two weeks to the passing out day.
So to those of who have passed out or are looking to exit the NYSC scheme, I
ask; got a game plan?
CHINONSO DANIELLA EDEH
BY/11B/0665
Nice one. Working on my plans already
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